Parashat Ḥayei Sarah begins with a funeral. Sarah dies, and Avraham buys a cave in Ḥevron to bury her. Then Avraham, now very old, gives his servant one last job: go back to my family and find a wife for my son Yitzḥak. The servant is not named in this chapter. Jewish tradition says he was Eliezer, the servant Avraham once called “the steward of my house” (Genesis 15:2).
The servant travels a long way with ten camels. Where does he stop? At a well. “And he made his camels kneel down outside the city by the well of water at the time of evening, the time that women go out to draw water” (Genesis 24:11). Much of the story of Israel happens at wells. Yaakov meets Raḥel at a well (Genesis 29:10). Moshe meets his wife at a well (Exodus 2:15–17). And many years later, Yeshua sits down at a well too.
The test at the well
Before he does anything else, the servant prays: “O Hashem, God of my master Avraham, I pray You, send me good success this day, and show kindness unto my master Avraham” (Genesis 24:12). Then he asks for a sign. The right young woman will be the one who says, “Drink, and I will give your camels drink also” (Genesis 24:14).
That is not a small thing to offer. A thirsty camel can drink many gallons of water, and there were ten of them. The test was not about beauty or money. It was about ḥesed, kindness that goes beyond what anyone asks.
And Rivkah passes the test before the servant even finishes praying. He runs to meet her and says, “Let me, I pray you, drink a little water from your pitcher” (Genesis 24:17). She gives him a drink, and then she says, “I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking.” And she “ran again unto the well to draw, and drew for all his camels” (Genesis 24:19–20).
Rashi asks why the servant ran toward her. He answers from the midrash: the servant saw the water rise up from the well to meet her (Rashi on Genesis 24:17; Genesis Rabbah 60:5). The water came up to meet the woman whose heart was ready to give it away.
Another well, another stranger
Now go to the fourth chapter of Yoḥanan (John). Yeshua is tired from his journey, and he sits down at Yaakov’s well in Samaria (John 4:6). A woman comes to draw water, and Yeshua says the same thing Avraham’s servant said: “Give me to drink” (John 4:7).
But this time the story turns around. The one asking for water is the one who has water to give. Yeshua tells her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that says to you, Give me to drink; you would have asked of him, and he would have given you living water” (John 4:10). Then he explains: “Whosoever drinks of this water shall thirst again: But whosoever drinks of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life” (John 4:13–14).
In Hebrew, “living water” is mayim ḥayyim. It means fresh, flowing water from a spring, not water sitting still in a pit. Our parashah keeps returning to such a place. When Rivkah first sees Yitzḥak, he has just come from Be’er-Laḥai-Ro’i (Genesis 24:62), the well named for “the Living One who sees me.” Later Yitzḥak’s servants dig “and found there a well of living water” (Genesis 26:19).
The water is the word
What is this living water? The prophets tell us that Hashem Himself is the source. “They have forsaken Me the fountain of living waters, and hewed them out cisterns, broken cisterns, that can hold no water” (Jeremiah 2:13). The sages add that water is a picture of Torah. Isaiah calls, “Ho, every one that thirsts, come you to the waters” (Isaiah 55:1), and the Talmud says, “water means nothing but Torah” (b. Bava Kamma 82a). When Israel went three days without water in the wilderness (Exodus 15:22), the sages said they had gone three days without Torah. That is why the Torah is read in the synagogue every Monday, Thursday and Shabbat, so that we never go three days without it.
The Talmud also asks why the words of Torah are compared to water. Its answer: water flows down from a high place to a low place. In the same way, Torah stays only with a person who is humble (b. Ta’anit 7a).
So when Yeshua offers living water, he is offering the word of God, the teaching that gives life. He said it plainly: “the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life” (John 6:63). When some disciples left him, Shimon Kefa (Peter) answered, “Master, to whom shall we go? you have the words of eternal life” (John 6:68). At Benei Avraham we believe Yeshua is the Messiah and the Son of God, sent by the Father. His teaching does not replace the Torah. It leads us deeper into it, the way a spring leads you back to the river it comes from.
This is the point of our lesson. Yeshua’s teachings are not an extra that sits beside the good news. They are the living water. A person who never drinks them will stay thirsty, however much he says he believes.
Drink, then become a spring
Yeshua said something even more surprising. Living water does not stay inside the one who drinks it. “He that believes on me, as the scripture has said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water” (John 7:38). The one who drinks becomes a well for others.
The Mishnah tells how Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai praised two of his students. Rabbi Eliezer was “a plastered cistern that does not lose a drop.” He remembered everything he was taught. Rabbi Elazar ben Arach was “a spring that keeps growing stronger” (m. Avot 2:8). He did not only keep what he was given. He made it flow. Both are good. But a disciple of Yeshua is meant to be a spring.
That is what Rivkah was. She did not just fill her own pitcher and go home. She kept running back to the well until a stranger and ten camels had enough. Her kindness made her the mother of Israel. The prophets say that one day the whole earth will drink like that: “living waters shall go out from Yerushalayim” (Zechariah 14:8), and “with joy shall you draw water out of the wells of salvation” (Isaiah 12:3).
Your well
So here is the question Parashat Ḥayei Sarah asks us: Are you drinking? Not once a year, but every day. Read the words of Yeshua. Learn one of his sayings by heart. Come back to the well the way Rivkah did, again and again.
And then ask a second question: Who is thirsty near you? A friend who is lonely. A parent who is tired. A stranger who needs a kind word. You do not need ten camels to practice ḥesed. You only need to say, like Rivkah, “I will draw water for you also,” and then do it.
The last page of the Bible ends with an open invitation: “And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely” (Revelation 22:17). The well is open. Come and drink.
Sources quoted in this drash
Tanakh
- Genesis 15:2: “And the steward of my house is this Eliezer of Damesek.”
- Genesis 24:11–20: the servant at the well, his prayer, and Rivkah drawing water for all ten camels: “I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking.”
- Genesis 24:62: “And Yitzḥak came from going to Be’er-Laḥai-Ro’i.”
- Genesis 26:19: “And Yitzḥak’s servants dug in the valley, and found there a well of living water.”
- Genesis 29:10 and Exodus 2:15–17: Yaakov and Moshe meet their wives at wells.
- Exodus 15:22: “And they went three days in the wilderness, and found no water.”
- Isaiah 12:3: “Therefore with joy shall you draw water out of the wells of salvation.”
- Isaiah 55:1: “Ho, every one that thirsts, come you to the waters, and he that has no money; come you, buy, and eat.”
- Jeremiah 2:13: “They have forsaken Me the fountain of living waters, and hewed them out cisterns, broken cisterns, that can hold no water.”
- Zechariah 14:8: “And it shall be in that day, that living waters shall go out from Yerushalayim.”
Brit Hadashah
- John 4:6–14: Yeshua at Yaakov’s well: “the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life.”
- John 6:63, 68: “The words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life” and “Master, to whom shall we go? you have the words of eternal life.”
- John 7:37–38: “If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink. He that believes on me, as the scripture has said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.”
- Revelation 22:17: “And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.”
Jewish tradition
- Rashi on Genesis 24:17 (from Genesis Rabbah 60:5): the servant ran to meet Rivkah because he saw the water rise up to meet her.
- b. Bava Kamma 82a: “water” means Torah (Isaiah 55:1); after three days without water (Exodus 15:22), the Torah is read every Monday, Thursday and Shabbat.
- b. Ta’anit 7a: words of Torah are like water: as water leaves a high place and flows to a low one, Torah stays only with the humble.
- m. Avot 2:8: Rabbi Eliezer is “a plastered cistern that does not lose a drop”; Rabbi Elazar ben Arach is “a spring that keeps growing stronger.”
Comment: This is the lesson’s prayer in our own words. It joins believing and doing, as Yaakov (James) does. “Start fresh” is the language of teshuvah, turning back to Hashem. Every day can be a new beginning, because His mercies are new every morning.
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